It is 2017 and we have progressed as a society when it comes to LGBTQIA; however, we as a society, must not assume that the work is done in making sure that we are good allies to the LGBTQIA community. We are definitely not living in a post-LGBTQIA society, therefore we must strive for work to be done, so we can be more inclusive. Here are some tips in how we can become a better ally:
- First off, listen what to the people who are part of the LGBTQIA since what we do not experience, they might experience. Do not interrupt, it is important to listen to everything, so we can learn how to improve amongst ourselves. Keep any unnecessary comments to yourself until asked.
- Be open-minded: As simple as it sounds, it is often difficult because there are several topics that might be new to us since we have different views and experiences.
- Respect their privacy: When learning something new, it is easy to get carried away and ask questions that we do not think that are invasive to us. However, the person who is telling their story might feel that they are in a vulnerable position; thus, it is best to keep your questions to yourself unless told otherwise.
- Acknowledge your privilege: It is hard to recognize our own privilege because we do not like to think that we have an advantage over others. Moreover, we like to assume that because of recent legislation, that the LGBTQIA community is doing better. While these legislations have paved way, there is more improvement to be done. Laws can change, but the views of people do not change at the same pace. Furthermore, a way to improve is acknowledge our privilege and to use our privilege as a platform to improve conditions for others. However, speak up but not over for the LGBTQIA community.
- Lastly, know that we are all human and we make mistakes, but do not give a pass and improve from it. Whether it is misgendering a person or saying something offensive. We learn something new every day and there is room for improvement. Apologize, and do not get mad if somebody corrects you. As stated, we are human and we are learning continuously in how we can become not only a better person for us, but for everyone else. In this case, to help the people that are in the LGBTQIA community.
By: Peer Educator Ashley Prat
