Responding to Suicidal Concerns

Recognizing the Warning Signs

Warning signs generally fall into three main categories:

1. Situational Clues

• High stress or recent trauma
• Loss of a loved one
• Academic failure or suspension
• Relationship challenges
• Bullying, hazing, or social isolation
• Mental health concerns (diagnosed or undiagnosed)
• Expressions of hopelessness or worthlessness

2. Verbal Cues

• Direct statements:
  • "I want to die."
  • "I’m going to kill myself."
  • "I wish I were dead."
  • "I can’t take it anymore."
  • "I’m thinking of ending it all."
• Indirect statements:
  • "If he breaks up with me, I’ll kill myself."
  • "Everyone would be better off without me."
  • "Soon, you won’t have to worry about me."
  • "I don’t belong here."
  • "I’m a burden to everyone."

3. Behavioral Clues

• Poor personal hygiene
• Falling grades, missed classes
• Giving away personal belongings
• Withdrawing from friends or activities
• Writing a suicide note
• Increased substance use
• Putting affairs in order (e.g., closing accounts, quitting commitments)

Get Involved

UTEP offers two programs for students, staff, and faculty who want to be part of the solution:

Campus Connect Suicide Prevention Training
Become certified as a Suicide Prevention Gatekeeper through this university-wide training initiative.

R U OK? Ambassadors
Help promote mental wellness and recognize how you can help someone who is contemplating suicide.  R U OK? Ambassadors are trained to listen and respond with care.

Interested in becoming certified or scheduling a training session?
To become a certified Campus Connect Gatekeeper, email: caps@utep.edu
To become a R U OK? Ambassador Visit: R U OK? Suicide Prevention